So, there's this girl I like, but I don't know if she feels the same way. Every time I go to say something to her, my brain just spits something out. Does anyone know how or when I should talk to her about it? If so, thank you, if not, thanks for wondering why I needed advice.
Fox Demon Avaritia
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Subject: Re: Advice Sun Jul 21, 2013 4:03 pm
Well, the best way to ease into a conversation is talking about a similar interest. Both of you will be excited about the topic, and both don't focus more on the hesitant awkwardness. Then, you can causally bring up what you wanted to talk to her about. As a girl myself, I can say we aren't as scary as you think we are, and we get as flustered around guys as you get around girls, so don't get scared to talk to her about it: she may feel the same way but be just as nervous!
Bryan
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Subject: Re: Advice Mon Jul 22, 2013 11:42 am
Eh, well. I truly suck at this, so I don't seriously think you should follow my advice but whatever. Take it slow, start a conversation, follow up with jokes and try to make her laugh as much as you can but not too much. The goal is to get her into a comfortable state. Then, slightly by slightly give out hints or slightly open-secret subliminal messages regarding what you feel; try not to sound like a creepy guy. Then, you have two possible scenarios. One, she could ask what do you mean and that's when you slowly go for it. Two, she's too immature or something like that and won't get the subliminal feeling behind it. If that happens, tell her straightforward.
The downside is, should you fail, either you lose her as a friend momentarily for a quite some time, or she'll feel too awkward with you around.
Like I said, I don't really think you should follow my advice. Don't blame me if you got friendzoned.
Pit
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Subject: Re: Advice Mon Jul 22, 2013 7:50 pm
Thanks for that, both of you. I'll try it...Hopefully.
jamester989
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Subject: Re: Advice Mon Jul 22, 2013 7:56 pm
yeah i'm just as inexperienced as you with girls, sorry can't really do any thing for ya...
P.S. i'm a brony too
Pit
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Subject: Re: Advice Sun Sep 22, 2013 4:10 am
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I think she may be starting to like me as I like her, but it's just a thought. Yay me!...Probably.
Bryan
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Subject: Re: Advice Sun Sep 22, 2013 5:30 am
Or, you can ask her what she likes when it comes to a guy. Don't be too obvious. Make it come out of nowhere.